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Why would a woman ask a man that she knows is straight when he’s coming out?

Why would a woman ask a man that she knows is straight when he’s coming out?

Coolguy1917

Umm, probably just a joke. Why are you looking into it so much is a better question? Seems irrelevant. You're fine.


XanthicStatue

She’s said things like this in the past too


Coolguy1917

But why does it matter? Shes your ex. You don't need to be insecure or seek her validation for your "straightness". I'm just saying, if I was that ex and was trying to get in your head, I definitely would. You need to really brush it off. Don't be insecure. If you're straight why does it affect you?


XanthicStatue

Good point. I think she’s trying to play games with. I want to get back with her, but idk how she feels. She broke up with me. The fact she’s saying this has be confused. I definitely brushed it off when she said it, but it’s in my head now lol


Coolguy1917

Yeah she probably is liking the power trip she's getting from still being desired by you and being able to also get in your head. Don't let her have that power over you.


XanthicStatue

She also said that she’s surprised I haven’t come yet especially bc of the recent pride and trans events. I told her the she’s weird sometimes and made a joke about being super gay


ezraethos

That just sounds manipulative and narcissistic behavior of her. Sexuality is no one’s business but one’s own. However with that being said ask YOURSELF why her constant fantasy about you “coming out” is making YOU so confused? But ya know do it for you bro ✊🏼


International-Risk86

A joke probably


DinkandDrunk

Don’t be all sensitive about it.


wolfgambrelli

Because evidently everyone is 'coming out' these days as something or the other. It's trendy


jaycakes30

Coming out is pretty big news


theloosestofcannons

It's a joke.


Carl_AR

She's just messing with you. Big question is why you got so upset over this....


XanthicStatue

Oh I’m not upset, mostly just confused. Consensus is it’s a shit test.


Carl_AR

In that case drop it. All it was, was a bad joke...


XanthicStatue

Agreed! She’s trying to get under my skin, which I won’t show that to her


Carl_AR

Thought you just told me you weren't upset?


XanthicStatue

I’m not upset. Confused and upset are two diff emotions


Carl_AR

Ok


DaddyRayfield58

She might be trying to tell you she’s coming out!!


Bubbilility

She might think you're bi?


XanthicStatue

Nah, it’s just a shit test. I told her she’s weird and made a joke of it.


BarrackOsamaBinBiden

Perhaps she wants to hook you up with her gay brother.